Decluttering Your Home: The Good, The Bad + The Unexpected Results.
I’m writing this as a PSA for all of us out there on our home decluttering journey…the seasoned declutterer, to the just starting, ‘it is my first rodeo’ crew. I want you to know what you’re up against when you declutter in your home. What benefits can you expect? What roadblocks are lurking around to jump in your way? I want to take away the mystery, once and for all!
Decluttering, like many things, has so many stigmas around it: it leads to a scarcity mindset, it’s a waste of time, it takes too long, you’ll give away things you shouldn’t, you’ll let be left with a stark white, boring home, etc. Once we unpack the truth about decluttering, you’ll be able to see which of these will easily fall off the bandwagon of stigmas.
So we’re going to lay it all out of the table here so you know EXACTLY what to expect the next time you start decluttering in your home, whether it’s your 1000th time or your 1st. Let’s dig into the clutter!
1. YOU MIGHT FEEL FRUSTRATED AT FIRST.
When you start decluttering, there’s a lot of unknowns. What decisions will I make? Will I make the right ones? Can I get through the stuff I want to? And I’ll just shoot you straight - starting decluttering is the worst part. But once you get going, it gets easier and then the actual motivation comes to keep you going!
2. THERE’S NOT GOING TO BE A ‘RIGHT TIME’ TO START.
A lot of people get caught up in waiting for the ‘right time’ to declutter, only to find that everyday life will bulldoze your time. Decluttering must be intentionally planned into your time, but it doesn’t have to take a lot of time.
And guess what, never will there be a ‘right’ day to start. But here’s the good news, ANY day can be the best day to start. Start small. I’m talking 5 minutes and your everyday bag. See where it goes from there. If you’re worried about having enough time in your day? Declutter a high traffic space in your home. Worried about getting your kids out the door to school with less chaos? Declutter your drop/exit zone. Want to get dressed easier each day? Declutter your clothing closet/drawers.
To recap: declutter to save time - and stop worrying about the right to start because it doesn’t exist!
3. THERE WILL BE THINGS YOU ENJOY ABOUT IT.
Yes, let’s imagine us enjoying the decluttering process…it’s possible! You might discover things you’ve been looking for. You might learn about things you no longer need so you don’t waste money down the line. You’ll clarify what is useful, valuable and life-giving to you and, most importantly, what’s draining you. You might find you love the quick dopamine burst you get having a short 10 minute decluttering sesh to clear out a drawer or your everyday bag; this short burst helps you feel a bit more in control of things during your chaotic day. There’s a lot more to this, but this is just the start of reasons why you might end up enjoying decluttering!
4. YOU MIGHT HAVE SOME REGRETS.
Truthfully, I can count on less than one hand that I either forgot I had decluttered something and went looking for it or I wanted it back. And even when this happened, I quickly moved on from it and it was not an actual issue. I was quickly fine with it being gone. If you find yourself in this situation, ask some more questions about why you are looking for it, see if you can use something else, and then if you absolutely must replace it, make sure it is something you’ll use frequently and have adequate space for. If you considered decluttering it at one point, it’s likely not worth bringing it back in your home, even in a newer or different version.
I believe the biggest regrets of decluttering come from realizing that you should have done it sooner. The weight of your stuff becomes apparent when you start removing things from your home that you don’t use or love. When you start feeling that physical shift in your home environment, you’ll wish you would have let yourself part with these things sooner, despite being unsure about how you’d feel after. Now you know.
5. YOU MAY HAVE TO PUSH PAST SOME GUILT.
The guilt that surfaces while decluttering is real. Some of it surfaces as sunk costs. This is money you spent on the item and feel bad or embarrassed about spending what you did, only to be left with something you don’t use. The bigger embarrassment here is not that you spent good, hard-earned money on something, its doing nothing about it. As a result, you end up surrounding yourself with things that weigh you down, cluttering up your daily routines and life, making them harder than they need to be. This is a strong cocktail for preventing you from living well!
Guilt also comes in the form of time. The longer you wait to declutter that spare bedroom, the closet you’ve been avoiding, your crowded kitchen drawers, the harder it is for your brain to take action. But again, remember the secret sauce to success here is merely starting! Start messy. Start unsure. But just start!
Guilt also comes from self-doubt. This guilt comes from believing you’re not good at decluttering, not a good homemaker, or have lost control over your home. Allowed of thoughts can make you quit all together. And I have to tell you, none of this is true. This is your brain sharing tricky, unhelpful thoughts with you that we CAN redirect to get unstuck. You are good enough and you CAN make some small shifts to change everything! You CAN!
6. YOU’LL FEEL LIGHTER IN MANY WAYS.
The lightness in your home after you’ve decluttered is unmatched. Once you’ve removed things from your physical space that you no longer need, the space that is created and reduced visual fatigue, simply because of looking at less, creates a new level of calm in your brain. Creating spaces in your home that help you rest and recharge is essential for your overall well-being.
You’ll be shocked at the peace you create in your mind by decluttering areas that are not readily visible. You know what’s there. Your brain and your body keeps a log of all the zones in your home that need help, that frustrate you, that you spend countless hours digging through to find things. I don’t believe in ‘out of sight, out of mind’ is a real thing. You mind is keeping a log and it’s causing stress that we then carry daily in our body. When you attack these forgotten spaces, you’ll feel unexpected peace.
This new level of peace comes from knowing you can find something, even if it’s hidden. Knowing that you can open your kitchen cabinet and see everything in order at a glance, that your kids can help themselves to toys and be able to put them away, that you can see the food low in stock in your pantry and reduce waste because you know what you have.
This lightness takes the feelings of frustration and the unknown we discussed at the beginning, and turns them into known, predictable ease throughout your home. It allows you to clarify essentials/values, helping you create visible simplicity by taking control over your spaces, simply by removing what you don’t use, value or love from your home. These things leaving your home are what allows you to create space for the life you want.
WHAT TO DO NEXT:
Are you ready to learn strategic steps to help simplify the process of decluttering in your own home? Learn to declutter anything, anywhere in your home in small bursts, without the overwhelm.
Check out my slew of decluttering resources below to help you take action now. ↓↓↓↓↓
+ Download my free declutter guide to get you taking quick + easy decluttering action in your own home (linked in profile).
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+ Check out more free decluttering resources HERE!
+ Check out more decluttering tools + guides HERE!
+ See our clients’ favorite decluttering resources:
All Access Home Bundle (includes 9 of our top declutter/organizing guides!)
Declutter Your Home Masterclass
Parents + Kids Guide To Decluttering
1 Week Home Reset Kit
Thanks for following along as we lighten the load of home + simplify our everyday to live better.
Please drop any comments + questions below. I’d love to here from you! // Kristin
5 Simple Ways To Declutter Before the Holidays
Lightening the physical load in your home, before the holidays, is a MUST! This transition to the holidays can feel heavy for many reasons. The physical load (stuff) surrounding you is only adding to an invisible mental load that’s weighing you down + making life day to day more challenging than it needs to be.
In these 5 Simple Ways to Declutter Before the Holidays, I’ll show you how to scan your home quickly, focus on certain hot spots + help you streamline your home in a way that’s simple, without the typical overwhelm you think of when it comes to decluttering. Nope, not here! Let’s get to it so we can all enjoy our holidays!
I want to invite you today to unpack these 7 Decluttering Myths with me so you know how to identify them creeping up + how to blast past them with the right tips + tools. Let’s go get unstuck together!
Lightening the physical load in your home, before the holidays, is a MUST! This transition to the holidays can feel heavy for many reasons. The physical load (stuff) surrounding you is only adding to an invisible mental load that’s weighing you down + making life day to day more challenging than it needs to be.
In these 5 Simple Ways to Declutter Before the Holidays, I’ll show you how to scan your home quickly, focus on certain hot spots + help you streamline your home in a way that’s simple, without the typical overwhelm you think of when it comes to decluttering. Nope, not here! Let’s get to it so we can all enjoy our holidays!
DECLUTTER FOCUS #1: Bulky packaging, grocery bags, paper bags, etc.
✔️Why it works:
〰️ All of these items are in the category of “reoccurring clutter”, which means it happens from living daily life + must be checked in on frequently or it will make daily routines/task WAY harder than they need to be in your home.
✔️How to do it:
〰️ Start by scanning your pantry + cabinets for bulky packing making it hard to see what you actually have to consume (examples: boxes of tea, snack boxes, cereal boxes, sparkling water boxes, etc.) / decant anything you’d like to make it easier to see what you have + keep it fresher longer.
〰️ Next scan for grocery bags + paper bags to recycle. Check locally (I take any plastic bags I end up with to our local Target). Keep a few of those large paper bags to cut + turn inside out for gift wrapping!
〰️ Recycle as much as you can + then consider reusable bags in lieu if plastics moving forward to cut out out this clutter culprit in your home! Yes please!
DECLUTTER FOCUS #2: Expired goods + foods not being eaten from your kitchen / pantry.
✔️Why it works:
〰️ Seasonally we must check in on our food stock, as we might want to eat differently or bake certain recipes because of the time of year we’re in, or we’ve left behind some foods that we’ve forgotten about. This step will help streamline + simplify your meal prep + navigating what you have in your kitchen with more ease by assessing what you have!
✔️How to do it:
〰️ Scan your fridge + freezer for old, expired food items. Clean out + recycle what you can.
〰️ Scan your pantry for old items or items that no one is eating. PRO-TIP: If you’re unsure if something will be eaten, pull it out from your pantry + put it out on the kitchen counter in a basket + see what disappears in the next few days. If no one touches it, giveaway or toss it.
〰️ Don’t forget about your local food bank during this process. Non-expired goods you aren’t eating / are unopened can be taken there. Check locally for specific needs!
〰️ Have a notepad handy + write down anything you need to restock + most importantly, pay attention to items you DON’T need to buy again + save your money!
DECLUTTER FOCUS #3: Scan your horizontal surfaces to declutter.
✔️Why it works:
〰️ Everything that’s out on tables, furniture + counter tops is begging for your attention - simplifying + removing a lot of what’s out will instantly elevate your space + create more visual calm throughout your home, leaving you feeling less drained.
✔️How to do it:
*For each zone you’re going to 1) put away things that belong somewhere else 2) donate items no longer needed or in use 3) tuck things away in a useful/intentional spot that don’t need to be out 4) aim to have out as *little* as possible!
〰️ First do a quick countertop scan through your home, or even in just one spot that’s a common clutter culprit (ahhhemmm I’m looking 👀 at you kitchen counters!!)
〰️ Now let’s do a quick scan on the tops of furniture - think credenzas, tv stands, night stands, etc. / get rid of trash, extra nicknacks you no longer love + simplify the entire surface / wipe off dust if you must 🤪
〰️ Lastly, scan table tops, like the kitchen table or your desk if you missed that spot. Edit like it’s your job. Stay as minimal as possible! Only keep it out if it’s an absolute have to!! Recycle, toss + shred or file papers as needed.
*With less out, you’ll be more encouraged to keep it that way + feel better in your spaces.
*A lot of clutter in these zones can be curbed simply by making small, quick decisions all week to put things away or remove them if they’re no longer needed. You’ve got this!
DECLUTTER FOCUS #4: Scan for outgrown + no longer used items.
✔️Why it works:
〰️ This is another category that should be quick decisions. The jacket is outgrown. The book is no longer read. We don’t play with these toys. The game is broken. This throw pillow is no longer my aesthetic taste. The shoes are too small. If you run across something you’re unsure about, move on. Circle back on it in a month. We are focusing on the obviously items that need to go right now to create more space in your home + breathing room.
✔️How to do it:
〰️ You can scan each room one at a time, or pick + choose where you want to put your efforts. For me right now, I’m looking in clothing closets, toy areas + books, as it pertains to my kids. For me, I’m looking at some clothing items, accessories + home decor items to quickly edit.
〰️ As you scan the area you’re focusing on, have a box or bag ready for the obviously “no” items to drop in. If it belongs to someone else, bring them into the conversation on why it’s leaving. “You’ve outgrown these pants. We can replace them. Do you want something similar or different to these as we look around”? Keep the process transparent + nonjudgmental for best results!
〰️ If the controversial “toys” are being looked at, read on for my advice: Talk with your kids about the items you “never see them use or play with” + then ask some questions. Would they rather part with these + bring in something new to play with? Would you rather have more space to do your favorite hobby? If there’s a few items you’re all unsure about if they’re being played with, move them out for 1 month into a more obviously location (or just a more limited toy rotation to see if that helps engagement). If the items are never played with, donate them! Easy!
DECLUTTER FOCUS #5: Text + email unsubscribing.
✔️Why it works:
〰️In a short amount of time, you can greatly reduce the digital clutter on your phone + in your inbox, bogging down your time + causing visual fatigue every day! As marketing messages ramp up, this is the PERFECT time to check in on this category of clutter.
✔️How to do it:
〰️ Put a timer on for 5-10 minutes + focus on your phone for text message decluttering. Unsubscribe for any text message alerts you no longer want to receive. While you’re there, spend a minute to delete unwanted text message threads so it’s down to your most recent conversations that you actually need/care about!
〰️ Put a timer on for 5-10 minutes + focus on your email inbox exclusively. Since marketing emails are in full force right now, instead of just deleting emails from companies you no longer want to hear from, unsubscribe from it first, then delete it. In just a matter of days, you will notice A LOT LESS traveling into your inbox, plus LESS time spent during your days deleting things you don’t even want!
PRO-TIP: In gmail, you can simply put your arrow cursor over the email you want to unsubscribe to (without even opening the email) + an ‘unsubscribe button’ will appear. So quick!
Well friend, you did it! You’re on your way to a much lighter + joyful holiday season! Wishing you all the good things as we wind the year down. And remember, you deserve peace + simplicity all year round.
WHAT TO DO NEXT:
〰️ Download my free declutter guide to get you taking quick + easy decluttering action in your own home (linked in profile).
〰️ Click the follow button for @fuzzyhipposhop to follow along for more decluttering tips + basics to get you unstuck in your home on instagram!
〰️ Make sure you go watch all the 5 Simple Ways to Declutter Before the Holidays in my instagram feed below (all reels take only about a minute to watch)!
Thanks for following along as we lighten the load of home before the holidays + get unstuck in our own home! I’ve got you!
Watch all the short videos on Instagram below.
5 Simple Ways to Declutter Before the Holidays:
Part 1: Bulky packaging + grocery bags, paper bags
Part 2: Expired foods + items not being eaten
Part 3: Horizontal surfaces scan.
Part 4: Outgrown + no longer used items scan
Part 5: Text + email unsubscribing
See the full instagram highlight with all mini reels HERE.
7 Decluttering Myths You Need to Know Now
The 7 Decluttering Myths we’re going to address today are keeping you stuck in your home, right this minute! Decluttering has a lot of stigmas around it that tell our brain that we’re not good enough, we’re wasteful + that we’ve messed up. And that nothing can be done about it! Nope!
I want to invite you today to unpack these 7 Decluttering Myths with me so you know how to identify them creeping up + how to blast past them with the right tips + tools. Let’s go get unstuck together!
The 7 Decluttering Myths we’re going to address today are keeping you stuck in your home, right this minute! Decluttering has a lot of stigmas around it that tell our brain that we’re not good enough, we’re wasteful + that we’ve messed up. And that nothing can be done about it! Nope!
I want to invite you today to unpack these 7 Decluttering Myths with me so you know how to identify them creeping up + how to blast past them with the right tips + tools. Let’s go get unstuck together!
PART 1: “Decluttering is something you do only once.”
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Well I’m sorry friend, this is NOT a one + done thing…it’s an ongoing process, but it doesn’t have to be hard! And this is true for ALL of us!!
And now here’s the good news… it becomes easier + you do less of it over time. 🎉 Once you get the basics down, you’re golden!
PRO-TIP: Start with the low hanging fruit - the stuff you don’t need to overthink - expired good, the shoes your child outgrew, the extra/bulky packing, the mail.
PART 2: “ALL clutter is the same.”
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There’s actually LOTS of types of clutter, believe it or not! Knowing the difference helps you make quicker, more intentional decisions. Here’s a few to consider:
〰️ sentimental clutter - inherited or items you have an emotional tie to for some reason (can be more challenging to make decisions regarding it)
〰️ reoccurring clutter - expired goods, food, packaging, grocery bags, school papers, mail, etc. (typically easy to part with and remove from your home - on going but can pile up quick!)
〰️ growth clutter - things you’ve physically outgrown, developmentally outgrown or there’s been a shift in taste, aesthetics or home life needs (items that no longer align with you and your family’s lifestyle)
〰️ occasional clutter - unwanted gifts, items you’ve fallen out of love with, items that need to exit because space is more valuable, broken, beyond repair items, etc. (not difficult to part with but are often ignored all over your home + eat up valuable space)
PRO-TIP: It’s important to know that not all clutter is the same because each category requires different amounts of mental energy from us to remove it. This is normal! Knowing this info helps you more intentionally declutter in your home + feel less stifled by items that seem hard to part with.
PART 3: “All clutter is from things YOU brought into your home.”
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Nope! Let’s unpack this a bit. Here’s a few ideas to about clutter showing up in your home + how it got there:
〰️ unannounced clutter - can walk into your home from gifts you didn’t ask for, generous offerings from friends or family, trinkets from school or a holiday event, work event, etc.
〰️ associative clutter - are things they come along with things coming in your home by default - like extra packing from things your pantry, grocery bags if you’re not using your own reusable ones, etc.
〰️ transformative clutter - something that once was very useful to you is no longer serving you or your family + is now clutter - this is normal + OK - this is why we have to occasionally check in on things we own.
We still have to deal with this clutter. And it’s a reminder when we do have control over what’s coming in your home, slow down + be intentional.
PRO-TIP: Questions to ask when bringing something into your home:
Do we REALLY need this? Do I WANT to manage this? Do I HAVE space for this? Will it truly ADD value to my life or others? Or is this just another THING in my home…
PART 4: “You’re either born knowing how to declutter or you’re not.”
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Nope! I totally disagree. After working with clients for years, I believe wholeheartedly it’s a skill that has to be learned, just like riding a bike or chopping veggies in your kitchen. Here’s some food for thought around why we’re not naturally wired to know how to declutter:
〰️ we are constantly in “consuming” scenarios that cloud our judgement when we go to part with things
〰️ intentionally bringing things into your home is more about setting boundaries than anything else - another skill we all must learn that effects every part of your life
〰️ decluttering is a lifestyle + mindset that combines self awareness, ability to filter + assess what’s useful, valueable + needed in your life + home
PRO-TIP: Practice makes progress. Progress build confidence. Confidence shows you just how capable you are + how easy it can be to live better with less clutter.
PHOTO NOTE: Most of what you see up above here is mess! It’s actively in use, it has a home + is easily wrangled.
PART 5: “Mess and Clutter are the same thing.”
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This is one of most shocking revelations you can make in your home to preserve your time + energy.
Here’s how to know the difference between mess + clutter:
〰️ MESS are things actively in use / think crafts your kids are currently playing with / piles up items in the entryway from weather shifts this week / clothing you wore than needs to be tossed in the to wash basket or hung up to wear again.
〰️ MESS comes + goes.
〰️ MESS can be wrangled + put back in a designated home quickly + easily.
〰️ CLUTTER has no intentional spot in your home.
〰️ CLUTTER is likely not in use + yet is constant - it’s lingering around, it’s making your daily tasks much harder than they need to be.
〰️ CLUTTER needs to leave your home - it’s not helpful day to day, it’s not worth the space it takes up, it does not make daily life better, it does not make daily routines easier. It does not add joy to your home.
Start scanning your home today + see what’s mess + clutter in your home.
What do you notice when you look at your spaces with fresh eyes?
PRO-TIP: Deal with mess when you can. As you identify clutter in your home, create an exit plan for it + have a donation bag/box ready at all times!
PART 6: “Decluttering ALWAYS takes a lot of time.”
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The truth is that decluttering can take as much or as little time as you want. You can weave it into any schedule, lifestyle or family dynamic.
Here’s some ideas on how to approach decluttering in smaller bursts of time:
〰️ focus on one small zone - your everyday day bag, one drawer, one shelf, one cabinet.
〰️ put a timer on for 10-20 minutes to help you focus in one area OR do a quick sweep through of your home for items to declutter
〰️ focus only in one room for whatever amount of time you want / I suggests breaks every 45 minutes (leave that space, walk around then come back) if you want to declutter longer on that area
〰️ declutter by one specific category - like books, jackets, shoes, games, kitchen utensils, papers, etc.
PRO TIP: Combine these strategies for even more ideas on how to declutter in short bursts in your home to create your own “super strategies!”
Example: Put the timer on for 15 minutes, focus on one category in one room in your home (like the bathroom focusing on decluttering expired + not used toiletries)
Get creative with these strategies to fit the needs of your home. You will soar, promise!
PART 7: “Decluttering is NOT FUN.”
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Decluttering has a stigma around it - it’s miserable, it takes a lot of time, it gets messy + it makes you feel bad about yourself.
I want to invite you to consider some alternative perspectives around decluttering:
〰️give away without guilt - you will not get your money back you’ve already spent - responsibly put items to good use in the community + move forward
〰️use impulse buys or even well thought out buys that flopped as helpful information - ask questions around the purchases to help you make better decisions moving forward - why were they a flop?
〰️we are all human + learning! Be kind to yourself as you continue to refine your daily essentials + be resourceful with your time, energy + money
〰️know what you have + where everything is in your home - don’t ever underestimate the power of knowing that you have enough to take care of your daily needs + where to find everything - this brings on safety + peace
〰️rediscover + find things you maybe haven’t seen in a while - once you know you want to keep it, give it an intentional home, take care of it + move forward!
WHAT TO DO NEXT:
〰️ Download my free declutter guide to get you taking quick + easy decluttering action in your own home (linked in profile).
〰️ Click the follow button for @fuzzyhipposhop to follow along for more decluttering tips + basics to get you unstuck in your home!
〰️ Make sure you go watch all the 7 Decluttering Myths in my instagram feed below (all reels take less than a minute to watch)!
Thanks for following along as we de-myth decluttering for our homes + get unstuck!
Watch all the short videos on Instagram below. Check out the HIGHTLIGHT for even more insider tips I shared in my stories you won’t want to skip!
7 Decluttering Myths You Need To Know Now:
Part 1: Decluttering is something you only once.
Part 2: All clutter is the same.
Part 3: All clutter is from things YOU brought into your home.
Part 4: You’re either born knowing how to declutter or you’re not.
Part 5: Mess and clutter are the same thing.
Part 6: Decluttering always takes a lot of time.
See the full instagram highlight with insider tips + all mini reels HERE.
Declutter 100 Items in 30 Minutes Challenge - Part I
A few weeks ago, I was feeling overwhelmed in my home and was noticing random things for days on end that needed to be decluttered. I kept pushing them off saying I would come back to it on the weekend. With soccer, family time and gardening needs ramping back up, I kept forgetting to come back to it. So in the middle of the week, while my kids were at school and I was taking a break from my home and work to do list, I set the timer for 30 minutes to declutter. Today I’m sharing the process and the results.
A few weeks ago, I was feeling overwhelmed in my home and was noticing random things for days on end that needed to be decluttered. I kept pushing them off saying I would come back to it on the weekend. With soccer, family time and gardening needs ramping back up, I kept forgetting to come back to it. So in the middle of the week, while my kids were at school and I was taking a break from my home and work to do list, I set the timer for 30 minutes to declutter. Today I’m sharing the process and the results.
A bit more background on this - I spent my time in only a few zones in my home; this was not a full house effort. Because the timer being on for only 30 minutes, I had to merely scan for items I could easily declutter, without much thought. They had to be quick, easy decisions. The overall goal of this challenge is to get things out of the house I already knew needed to go, and maybe find a few treasures along the way!
Another tip - I did not spend time reorganizing things in the spots I was decluttering during the 30 minutes. I circled back after to tidy things up and reset / reorganize any spots that needed it. Focus on speed decluttering for those 30 minutes only. Reorganize if need later on.
Alright, well do you want to see the results?
TIP: Decluttering your every day bags are a great place to start to make quick, mindless decluttering decisions in a snap!
Reminder: This is not a full house declutter. This is what I call “hit the highlights in a few zones for 30 minutes” decluttering. Or you can focus on just one zone. It’s totally up to you! I had a few spots in mind that I knew needed my attention and that I could make quick decisions in, so those were priority for this quick decluttering session.
My favorite Time Timer to get set up.
Our ThredUp collection box for decluttered items.
A peek in on our declutter box a few minutes in!
A hallway zone before I decluttered some decor.
What items to look for while you’re decluttering:
✔duplicates not in use ✔broken items ✔things no longer in use or outgrown ✔items and extra packaging/paper that can be recycled ✔items that are just trash ✔things in good shape but you’ve fallen out of love with to donate ✔collect items that need to be put away elsewhere in the house or given away/returned to someone ✔remove expired items like toiletries and food items (that’s as mindless of a decision as it gets!) ✔take note of wasted items that you won’t buy again or will buy less of in the future ✔take note of anything you run across that needs to be restocked
Categories to sort your items into as you declutter:
Donate (clean, in good shape, someone else can use the item)
Recycle (can be recycled in your area, check locally)
Textile Recycle (I do this separately with various companies like For Days or Ridwell might be in your area - check locally for other free options close to you)
Sell (for this round, it’s only books we’ll sell to Half Price Books)
Relocate (items removed from one area that you want to keep but need to go in another area of the house or given to someone/returned)
Trash (well, it’s just trash and it is the last resort if it doesn’t fall into any of the above categories)
You can have bags, boxes or baskets dedicated to each category as you go, or just throw everything in one bin (like in your laundry baskets for example) and sort things when you’re done. Use what you have and keep it simple!
Here’s the breakdown below of what I decluttered. After the 30 minutes, I sorted everything into categories then totaled them up.
✔Donate: 25
3 oven mitts
1 unscented candle
2 over the door hooks
1 kids tshirt
3 vase/vessels
1 glass cleaning
1 drawstring bag
1 bag Velcro pieces
1 bag extra headphone ear covers
3 key chains
1 birthday necklace
1 mini sewing case
1 mystery cord
15 hair new accessories
✔Sell: 8
8 books (will take to half price)
✔Recycle: 32
4 tea bag boxes
1 Empty vitamin bottle
12 paper towel/toilet paper rolls
1 plastic yogurt container
2 magazines
1 cardboard box
1 paper item
1 plastic tray
2 spice jars (clean out first)
1 empty spray vitamin bottle
6 random pieces of paper
✔Textile Recycle: 1
1 old kitchen towel
✔Relocate: 12
3 kids bracelets
2 packs of seeds
1 clip
6 large shells
✔Trash: 61
3 receipts
34 tea bags
1 bag sugar sprinkles
1 empty super glue bottle
19 plastic knives
3 pieces random trash
✔Decluttering total: 139
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You can see the full break down of this Declutter Challenge, with short videos, more photos and details in my Challenge Highlight on the gram.
Check out our donation resources and more HERE.
See more Sell, Donate, Recycle + Toss Resources HERE
My donations from this round went to Leukemia of Texas Resale Center.
So what’s next?
Now it’s time for YOU to dive into your own (short burst of time) declutter challenge! Use whatever time you have, 10, 15, 20 minutes or 30 if you’d like, and see what you can do! This is how decluttering in real life actually works, when we can sprinkle it into our everyday, when we can, as time permits. But don’t obsess about the number of items leaving your home, just aim to remove things you know you no longer need, in as little time as possible (with as little mental effort as possible)!
I know I’ll be back with another round of this soon because my garage has been calling my name…see you then!
If you’d like MORE HELP decluttering + lightening the physical + mental load in your home, here’s a few great places to start.
Learn the basics of Decluttering
Parents + Kids Guide To Decluttering
Benefits of Decluttering (Part II): Results to Expect in the Coming Days + Weeks in your Home
So what happens in the coming days and weeks after you’ve decluttered? And what benefits can you expect? We’ll dive into all of this today!
So what happens in the coming days and weeks after you’ve decluttered? And what benefits can you expect? We’ll dive into all of this today!
If you missed PART I of the benefits of decluttering blog series, you can find it HERE, then come back to us!
We’re deep into a 3 part blog series where we discuss all the benefits of decluttering at various stages after you declutter. The value in taking the time to break this down is to help you know what’s ahead and encourage you anytime you start decluttering. So let’s begin with Part II, the benefits you can expect in the coming days and weeks after you’ve decluttered in your home.
1. You’ll save time + energy.
While you’ll notice this immediately, this becomes more obvious a week or so after you’ve decluttered in a space. Let me give you some examples of how this can play out.
In the Kitchen:
Your food prep takes a fraction of the time because you’re not fumbling through drawers digging for the right chopping knife or tools to get it done.
In the Bathroom:
You’ve removed all the products/toiletries you don’t use or have expired + have only kept the ones you use regularly in an easy to find, easy to reach spot so your morning routine goes so much smoother.
In the Closet:
You’ve paired down your hanging clothes/drawers to clothing you wear regularly, enjoy wearing + fit well. Getting dressed is no longer a chore + you can easily see and access what you’ve decided to keep.
Small bits of time saving equal large amounts of time gained over time, resulting in less energy spent on daily tasks because they’re easier to complete. Yes, please!
2. You’ll crave more efficiency throughout your home + know how to make it happen.
Buckle up because things are about to get REALLY GOOD! Once you declutter in one area of your home and experience how life feels in a newly streamlined spot in your home, it’s contagious!
You’ll begin to notice other “inefficiencies” throughout your home and that’s OK! An overstuffed drawer, a cluttered counter, a bag with a bunch of random in it so you can’t find anything, spots throughout your home that collect clutter piles, spots where kids struggle to put things away…it will feel like there’s spot light over these spots because you now know how to detect them and how to resolve them! Woohoo!
DO NOT BE AFRAID OF FINDING MORE CLUTTER TO DEAL WITH IN YOUR HOME (I’m not yelling, I’m just really passionate)!!
✓Take things one zone (start small) at a time, as you are able to. ✓Declutter that spot to support what you typically do in that spot/things you’d like to do there in the future. ✓Declutter around those goals + then start living with it!
You will have higher standards for the quality of your home environment now + that’s OK!! Welcome to living your best life!
3. You’ll become more intentional about your days + your life.
While we tend to focus on the “physical stuff” creating clutter in your home, when you declutter throughout your home, you realize the impact ‘things’ can have on you time/schedule.
Our days become filled up with inefficient tasks + managing stuff that we don’t even need or want. So many things become so much harder, take too many steps + take up way more time than they need to simply because of having too much stuff/things in the wrong spots in your home.
✓ You’ll start to become more intentional and protective about how you use your time.
✓ You’'ll clarify what’s most important to you + how that translate to how to spend your hours each day.
✓ Dare I say you might even start “decluttering your schedule” + removing things from it that no longer add value to your life.
Just as we do this with physical objects through decluttering, you’ll learn there’s a directly connection to your time as well.
Your time is so precious + invaluable, protect it fiercely my friend!
REMINDER: Sometimes decluttering in a spot might simply mean rearranging or moving items in a way where they’re easier to see + use. It’s not always about getting rid of stuff!
COMING UP NEXT in Part III of the Benefits of Decluttering…
The results you can expect in the coming months + years after decluttering in your home! See you in the next post!
If you’d like MORE HELP decluttering + lightening the physical + mental load in your home, here’s a few great places to start.
No B.S. Guide To Decluttering Parents + Kids Guide To Decluttering
Free Declutter Guide Learn the basics of Decluttering Organizing Basics
Declutter Your Home Masterclass Shop all Declutter + Organize Guides/Products
Benefits of Decluttering (Part I): Results to Expect Immediately in Your Home
So what happens in your home immediately after you declutter in it? What results can you expect? We’ll dive into all of this today!
We’re moving into a 3 part blog series where we discuss all the benefits of decluttering at various stages after you declutter. The value in taking the time to break this down is to help you know what’s ahead and encourage you anytime you start decluttering. So let’s begin with Part I, the immediate benefits and results you can expect when you declutter in your home.
1. Your home will look different.
I’m guessing you knew this part. But let’s unpack it a bit further. When you declutter, your home will look different by way of removing items you no longer need or relocating items that would be best suited for other areas of your home. You’ll see spaces differently as you start to peel back the layers of “non-essentials” that have taken over your home and remove them from your space. This will reduce “visual clutter” that can stack up throughout your home.
Focus on removing items collecting on horizontal surfaces (like counter tops and tops of furniture) that can be donate, recycled, toss or simply tucked away (if it needs to be kept but doesn’t have to be out). Focus on removing items that might be tucked away (and out of sight) that make finding your everyday “essentials” more difficult. Essentials in your home make daily life easier. Decluttering aims to create more ease and more peace throughout your home, putting those essentials into focus.
You’ll also start seeing all your favorite items around your home with fresh eyes. Your favorites (most valued and love items) will take center stage because they’re no longer covered up by items that have no meaning or value to you. Your favorite collections, furniture, artwork, books, photos, etc. will take prominence in your home and add to your daily joy and happiness in your home!
2. Your home will feel different.
The reason why your home will feel different as you move through it (after decluttering in any space) is because there’s physically less stuff weighing down your environment. Each and every item in your home grabs for your attention, so you must be incredibly intentional about what you allow into your home, knowing that it will ultimately pull from your energy/daily bandwidth.
In my own home, and often reported from my clients, is a feeling of ease and lightness that happens in their home as they move through their decluttered spaces. There’s two parts to this: 1) The removal of and lessening of physical objects you have to maintain/clean/care for creates physical lightness and 2) reducing the mental load of things in your space creates mental lightness. The mental load is the weigh of objects grabbing for your attention without you even knowing it, creating visual clutter for your brain to continually process and spend energy on. You feel the relief of this “intangible weight” lifted once items you no longer need are removed from a space and your brain no longer has to make decisions about them. It’s a gift. Get ready for greater focus, clarity of thoughts and calm.
3. You’ll gain confidence with your decision making.
This is often one of the most invaluable and overlooked benefits you’ll gain immediately after decluttering - confidence in your decision making.
Decluttering, as I love to describe to my clients, is much like a muscle. The more you practice, the more you strengthen and fine tune this muscle. If you’ve found yourself struggling to make decisions in other parts of your life, you’ll find decluttering a drawer and making quick, simple decisions a boost for your overall decision making skills.
Decluttering helps you value your current seasons of life, trust yourself/your thoughts, clarify your needs and build confidence in your ability to intentionally act on them. One of the greatest noted stressors in life comes from delayed decision making or procrastination , which often comes from overwhelm. To curb this, start small…I mean really small. One corner of a counter, one small drawer, an everyday bag…then go from there!
COMING UP NEXT in Part II of the Benefits of Decluttering…
The results you can expect in the coming days + weeks after decluttering in your home! See you in the next post!
If you’d like MORE HELP decluttering + lightening the physical + mental load in your home, here’s a few great places to start.
No B.S. Guide To Decluttering Parents + Kids Guide To Decluttering
Free Declutter Guide Learn the basics of Decluttering Organizing Basics
Organizing Traps: What The Container Store Isn't Telling You
To be clear, I do enjoy shopping in the Container Store (when I need to). The beautiful wall of an incredible array of glass jar options makes my heart go pitter patter. But let’s get real here for a second. What I don’t love are the unnecessary pressures people feel when they go into a store like this (or any store with organizing and storage solutions) and then they end up spending an obscene amount of money on products they don’t actually need. And guess what? Their organizing issues still aren’t solved and they still have clutter making life and daily routines harder than they need to be. Here we’re going to unpack a few organizing traps that are easy to fall into, and what to do instead so you’ll be well on your way to organizing bliss in your home without that hefty price tag. Well…shall we?!
Declutter before you shop.
By the time you step foot into an organizing hot spot like the Container Store, Target or one of my personal favorites, Daiso, you need to declutter the space you’re wanting to add more order to. That’s always step one. This will help you gain clarity on your next steps and what exactly needs more organizing. By the way, none of the stores are going to coach you on how to do this! Here’s a quick checklist of things to make sure you do before you layer in any organization solutions from your favorite stores.
Declutter the zone you’re focusing on thoroughly and ruthlessly.
Remove things that don’t belong in that spot. Toss, recycle, donate, giveaway items as you see fit.
Assess the space you have and identify any organizing challenges you’re having.
Is it a deep shelf? You might need a pull out bin so nothing gets lots in the back.
Do you have a drawer that you need to store a wide variety of items in? You might need to subdivide the drawer with smaller, shallow trays or containers so everything isn’t lumped together and you can see everything you have at a quick glance.
Measure the space you have and sketch a plan for the items you might need to improve that zone with a little as possible organizing product.
Shop your home first.
Shop your home first before you buy a single organizing item. Trust me. Often the best solutions to your organizing dilemmas are already hanging out right there in your home, without you ever leaving the house or spending a dime. Of course the stores won’t tell you this tip!
Look in other rooms, drawers, desks, closets, etc. for organizing items that could solve your current organizing challenges without you leaving the house or spending a dime.
Consider swapping things between rooms that could better fit the zone you’re working on.
Be resourceful with your organizing solutions. Consider boxes, packaging, trays, jars and containers from products/foods already hanging around in your home. Boxes can be cut down and sized to fit drawers.
Plastic fruit containers from the produce area in your grocery store can be cut into two pieces (the lid and the containers base) and great uses as drawer dividers for small items.
They’re also great to corral small office essentials and kids crafting supplies of all kinds.
Price check before you shop.
The reality is that there’s a lot of stores offering similar products to solve the same organizing challenges. Some stores carry different sizes of the same things, some are exactly the same, and others carry a very specific line of product that you can only get there. Before you commit to buying anything, take a few minutes to see what each store has in stock, check the dimensions against what you’re needed, and verify the material(s) used to make the product.
While you’re price checking the items you want to buy, make sure you’re cross checking that with the measurements/quantities you need. A slightly different size might not fit as well in your kitchen drawer, even if you save a few bucks.
Don’t forget overstock stores like Tuesday Morning, Marshalls, TJMaxx and Homegoods (those are just a few of my favorites) for organizing solutions at discounted prices. These stores are best shopped at in person.
Container Store is an excellent stop for highly specific organizing solutions because they’ve thought of every nook and cranny in your home! Depending on what you’re buying, if the cost seems higher, make sure you check the material quality. I’ve never had an issue with quality on items I’ve purchased at Container Store.
Also consider the cost of shipping to your home versus hopping in the car to pick up what you need.
Don’t forget your local thrift stores for organizing solutions. Once you know what you’re looking for, the world is your oyster! Go with a list and measuring tape and see what you can find!
Shop for solutions, not by store labels.
The websites and stores will direct you to the kitchen section for kitchen storage, bathroom area for bathroom storage, etc. This is all fine and well, but, it’s only part of the story! There are so many solutions in every store that could solve your organizing challenges that can be found ALL throughout the store. Here’s a few examples of how I’ve shopped for organizing solutions/products in various shop categories.
I’ve used vertical paper organizers found in the office section for pantry organizing
I love looking in the bathroom section for bins and storage ideas that can go all over the home, like toy storage and pantry containers, especially these Brightroom options from Target with hand cut outs so they’re easy to grab and move around.
The sushi trays, plates and tools from Daiso (shop in store for their full selection) have been my go-tos for organizing shallow drawers in our home because they work just like a tray and are so versatile and wipeable!.
I hope you’ll find these tips handy and inspiring the next time you find yourself needing to add more order and organization to a space in your home. After all, the answers might already be sitting in your home!
If you’d like MORE HELP decluttering, organizing and resetting your home, here’s a few great places to start.
Free Declutter Guide Donate for Good Links + Resources Learn the basics of Decluttering Organizing Basics Shop all Declutter + Organize Guides/Products
Reset Your Home For Summer Checklist
It’s officially Summer according to the calendar (even though it’s been hot here in North Texas for a while now). The focus has shifted to popsicles and hydration now more than ever! With the arrival of Summer comes necessary shifts in our life and home so we can cruise into this next season enjoying what it has to offer. Seasonal transitions are an inherently great time to slow down, reset your home, part ways with anything you don’t want to move forward with in your spaces, and gain clarity on what you’d like in greater focus moving forward.
Do a clothing check in.
1. Take a quick look in your drawers and clothing and remove anything that you KNOW you don’t plan to wear during this warm season. This would include things you avoided last Summer season, items that don’t fit, are uncomfortable, or items you no longer enjoy wearing. If you find anything that you still enjoy wearing that needs to be repaired or altered, put those items aside to repair on your own or take to a local tailor. Here’s our list of donation resources for clothing throughout the US and are often local to your area.
2. Move things around so it’s easier to get dressed during this warmer season. I’m a notorious’ organizing by color only person’ in my closet, but this season I was noticing that I was struggling to dressed easily once the heat started to crank outside, so I decided to move everything around. I grouped all my short sleeves, shorts, skirts, etc. together, organized them by color, then moved these ‘warm weather staples’ so they are the easiest to see in my closet. You can do something similar in your drawers with your warmer weather items. These visual cues focused on the current season for your clothing will help you get dressed with great easier.
3. Pay attention this seasons to items you’re avoiding OR wanting to wear more of. If you notice you’re avoid a particular pair of shorts, start asking questions. Are they uncomfortable? Do they need to be altered? Do they fit right? Are you not sure what to wear them with? Do you need to try them out with other tops or accessories to have more fun with it? Move things you want to wear in a spot that is easy to see. If you have a dress that you’re unsure you want to keep, wear it around the house for the day or on a day you’re running car errands (or quick errand into a store). See how you feel while you take it for a quick “test drive”. Try to mix things up and try out garments you’re not sure about with other things you’ve haven’t worn them. Intentionally shaking things up a bit will likely breathe new life into these pieces you’re unsure about. And if it’s not a match, you can be confident parting ways with these garments after you’d tested them out this season.
Do a food check in.
1. First take a breeze through your fridge and freezer. Look for anything you’re not going to eat, is expired or you simply don’t want anymore. Clean out and recycle and much as possible (please check locally for plastics they accept).
2. Next assess your pantry area. Whether you have an official pantry space or you like to store your room temperature snacks/dry goods/spices/baking ingredients in cabinets, out on a shelf or on top of the fridge, focus on removing anything that is expired, no one is eating or you no longer want to eat. If anything is unopened and not expired, check to see if your local food bank will accept it.
3. Organize and plan for the season. In any area holding food (fridge, freezer, pantry, cabinets, etc.) spend a few minutes group liking items so you’re not digging around all over for the same things. In any kitchen zones that you’re struggling to keep in order, give them a boundary (clear container, basket, tape line on the shelf) to give them a clear home. Label any area necessary so finding things and putting things is easy and intuitive for anyone in the home. Take note of anything you need to restock from your food decluttering session you just completed. Make your life easier with meal planning by creating a list of go-to Summer meals you can put on autopilot for the season. Try our weekly dinner planner notepad here or our Meal Planning Printable Bundle here that will help you plan out your meals with ease for months at a time!
Do a general home check in.
1. Walk the main areas of your home to look for anything out of season, and items that need to be removed or relocated. For example, the winter coats still on the hook in the entryway can be put away for the season. If you’d like to lighten the look in your living a bit, swap out blankets from other rooms to lighter ones during the Summer months. Swap out your kids artwork in frames to ones that feels lighter and brighter. Remove any unnecessary decor, pillows, nick nacks, etc. that make your space feel crowded and cluttered for donations. Recycle old magazines from past seasons. Recycle, file, shred, toss old mail/paper pile that’s been staring at you.
2. Look through your medicine cabinets and toiletries for expired products and items you need to restock. Come Summer, I always get caught off guard with all the products that are essential for our Summer, from bug sprays, aloe, skin care, sunscreens, lotions, etc. Check for expiration dates on all items each year. It’s also important to check in on your first aid kit status and restock on any essentials, including medicines. Check out our TOSS section for proper disposal of products, medicines and common expiration dates for many household items here.
3. Create spaces that encourage you to enjoy your Summer season and support any goals you have. How do we do this? Here’s a few ideas. If you want to read more this Summer, create a reading spot with your favorite books, great reading light, cozy blankets and a spot to put your feet up (you can do the same thing for your kids). If you want to focus on less screen time and more activities in the home, create a puzzle table or game area with card decks/board games so things highly visible and not tucked away. If you’d like to cook more with seasonal ingredients while they’re the freshest, display fresh products in a beautiful way in your kitchen and plan out some meals that highlight your seasonal food favorites (see our everyday meals planner and our meal ideas list maker here).
I hope these tips will help you take a quick look at your home with fresh eyes, lighten your load in your home, and help you focus on more of the things that you enjoy about this Summer season.
If you’d like MORE HELP decluttering, organizing and resetting your home this Summer, here’s a few great places to start.
Free Declutter Guide, Learn the basics of Decluttering, Schedule Decluttering Support, Donate Your Decluttered Items For Good Links SHOP all Declutter + Organize Guides/Courses
How To Know When To Declutter In Your Home: 5 Red Flags To Look For
Knowing when to declutter in your home can be confusing. Sometimes you’re just not sure if it’s time or if it’s worth your effort to do it right now. The benefits of decluttering are well known, yet it can still feel hard to carve out time to do it. Today we’re going to talk through 5 “red flags” (obvious indicators) that your space needs decluttering. If you notice one or more of any of these red flags going on in your home, you’ll know it’s time to take a moment and declutter that area. Keep this list handy so you can reference back to it often!
This is our front entry coat closet turned “play closet”. If I look in there + there’s stuff everywhere, it can definitely stress me out. But before I spiral, I do a quick reality check in. 1) Are my kids deep in play? If yes, leave it. 2) Can we add this to a reset time later or get their help with it? Yes. Carve out a few minutes later on to pick up that spot. 3) If I notice a consistent pattern of the kids not being able to pick up things, a light declutter might be needed because they’re trying to manage too much in that zone.
You look around + you can see/feel the clutter chaos.
Your space feels triggering for you and you can feel that it’s not working. It is creating unnecessary stress when you’re in the space or when you catch it in your sight lines. Even when we can’t quite put our finger on WHY a space is giving us anxiety, we know it needs our attention. I would say 9.5 times out of 10 reducing what is in the space to essentials is the key to resolving this.
You’re struggling to find things.
There’s a lot of looking and digging. You open up a drawer and you can’t find the kitchen utensils you need for a simple kitchen task. You can’t find the pen you always use to take notes with. Your kids are always losing shoes or their favorite toys. You can’t remember where you put that important note that came in the door last week. You can’t find what you thought you had in the pantry to get dinner started. You’ve given up several times looking for something you needed but just couldn’t find it and didn’t have the time to continue searching. This is a big one. It wastes so much of your time.
You see stuff collecting on your horizontal surfaces.
When you look around at counter tops, tops of tables, desks and furniture, you see a lot of stuff. I’m not talking about when the surface is actively in use (cooking a meal, kids creating artwork or doing homework at the table, etc.). I’m also not talking about simple gesture of joy in your home (fresh flowers, a bowl of a your favorite fruit out, etc.). These horizontal surfaces, if we aren’t diligent in carefully selecting what gets to stay out on them, things will inevitable collect on them. Think about each item out on a horizontal surface in your home, then look at each item carefully. Do you need it? If so, does it need to be out to be helpful/useful? Could it be tucked away? It is worth the space it is taking up this surface or would having more space be MORE helpful? Each item out on these horizontal surfaces, whether it is a counter top or the top of a piece of furniture, all grab for your attention. Too much attention grabbing and we become overstimulated and the attention fatigue easily creeps in without us realizing it. Do a quick horizontal surface “audit” anywhere in your home and feel free to thank me later!
You don’t have a plan for when things get put away.
Real reality, we life in our homes and we use things so stuff gets left out, causing lots of visual clutter. No problems there. The problem surfaces when we don’t have a plan for when we need a sweep through of spaces to put things away to clear this visual clutter. Some clutter is simply things that need to put away (like coats put back in a closer or toys back in their bin). Other clutter is excess because we are keeping things that we don’t actually use or need. When these two combine, it’s dangerous. We clutter up the things we actually need/use/love with things we don’t. That’s where things get messy, literally and figuratively. A plan to remedy this (aside from decluttering) is to put things away in small bits throughout the day, pick one time a day to do a quick round up to reset your home (yes, recruit help if you have it), or pick a few days a week to reset the spaces in your home.
This is a highly active landing spot in our home that can go from mass chaos to orderly in a snap, which is why I love it so much. We need to aim to create lots of these spaces in our home that can ebb + flow with our daily life. Some items get temporarily hung up or set on the bench + then put away later on when we can.
You put off addressing a cluttered zone because you think it will take a lot of time.
Truth, it will take some amount of effort to improve any area of your home, small or large. It will take some time to put things away and reset any space. But on the flip side of this, your brain is VERY GOOD at making things seem WAY WORSE than they actually are. The longer we delay things the more challenging and overwhelming we perceive them, when they likely haven’t changed much. If you’ve identified an area or a few in your home like this, not to worry. Pick any spot of your choice and use my timer method (5 to 20 minutes) and declutter this zone. The goal will be simply remove anything that doesn’t need to be there. Either relocate things that shouldn’t be there and are more useful in another location OR remove items that need to be donated/recycled/tossed. Keep only with is useful, helpful and valuable to you in that area and eliminate the rest. See what you can done in a short amount time. Put on some good music while you work. I can guarantee you’ll be blown away at what you can do in a small amount of time focusing on one small area.
If you find yourself identifying with one or more of these “red flags” in your home, just know that relief from the clutter chaos can happen by focusing on small areas in less time that you’d think. Your efforts will continue to give back to you daily but way of saved time, energy and mental bandwidth. Yes please!
Want to get this decluttering party started but aren’t sure where to go next? Here’s a few options for you to get you moving + motivated.
Free Declutter Guide, Learn the basics of Decluttering, Schedule Decluttering Support, Donate Your Decluttered Items For Good Links
Decluttering For Good: How To Start + Make An Impact On The World Around You
I’ve done a lot of coaching and supportive counseling to clients, friends and family over the years about decluttering in their home. Within all those conversations, there’s two common trains of thought I’ve observed that keep you stuck. One, that you have no time to declutter. Two, that you’re not sure where to start, causing lots of overwhelm, guilt and stress. Today we’re going to walk through a few simple ways to start decluttering and align your items you’re parting with to do good in the community around you.
Start Small.
This is my number one recommendation when you are decluttering in your home, whether you’re a newbie or you’re feeling seasoned with the concept. It’s the skill I teach in all of my masterclasses, guides and courses, the act of breaking things down into small, actionable steps (or mini tasks).
Here’s a few ways you can complete small decluttering tasks in your home in small chunks of time.
Grab a box or bag and walk your home or focus on one small area to declutter. Fill the box or complete that area and be done!
Focus on one category of items to declutter - books, shorts, writing utensils, spatulas, shoes. Put your blinders on with everything else and just focus on that one category and complete it.
Declutter one micro zone - one drawer, one shelf, one counter top, one seating area, one wall, one piece of furniture. Edit and eliminate items you no longer use, find value it or enjoy and keep the rest.
Schedule Your Donations.
I absolutely LOVE scheduling a donation pick up. I’d say this is one of the best tools I share with my clients, family and friends for getting decluttering done in my own home that will work for you too. It gets a hard date on the calendar to focus on, it lights a fire under you and gets you motivated to take action, it has a deadline (or an ending so to speak), and people are relying on you to keep your word. I love it and it works every time! Also note, do the best you can within the time frame you have. You may not get to everything and that is OK. You can schedule another pick up at another time when it makes sense for you. I love to schedule a pick up a week or two out so I have time to go through things and get everything organized for the pick up.
In recent months I’ve schedule donation pick ups with Salvation Army and Leukemia Texas. Also check out this article on charities that offer pick up services. See more donation resources below at the end of this post and always check locally in your area for what’s available around you.
A few tips to make your life easier and easier on the wonderful people who will pick up your items and do good with them:
Donate your items in something reusable or recyclable to reduce waste and trash during the process (paper bags, cardboard boxes or reusable or sellable containers/baskets/bags).
Organize your items by how your donation pick up service requests/categories your items, like clothing bags, household goods, kids toys, etc. I like to further sort items like clothing into adult and kid categories when relevant. This often reduces how many containers/boxes/bags you need for the donations because everything is grouped with like items that are often like shapes.
Make sure you follow the instructions of the donation service for pick up. Have your items out, organized and out/protected from the elements so it’s easy for the truck to pick up and move on to their next location.
Align your donated items to do good for others.
Often times the one thing missing to motivate us to complete decluttering tasks in our home is a greater purpose. For example, if you know that decluttering in your closet is going to help women who can’t afford a new wardrobe for job interviews that are trying to get back on their feet with Dress For Success, aren’t you going to be more willing to see it through? Or that taking the time to declutter toys and books with your kids you’ll be able to offer items to donate to a cause like My Stuff Bags Foundation who offer support, comfort and goods to children displaced from their home.
There are so many ways to align your decluttering efforts and items with good all around your community and beyond. Check out our newly revamped donation resources here for more ideas.
Now’s your turn. What is a favorite donation spot you love to share your decluttered home goods too? I’m so excited to continue building our donations resources to serve our community!
How can I help? Want more support decluttering in your home?
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3 Ways To Declutter In Short Bursts
Full permission here to be done with the old way of thinking that decluttering has to be done in large chunks of time AND that you have to clear your schedule to get anything done. Nope! Not here! The reality is that most of us only have short bursts of time to declutter. Not to mention the limited mental bandwidth to declutter, am I right? Decluttering in small bursts keeps you focused and fresh while you’re making decisions and more motivated to complete small tasks because it’s a practical, doable time commitment.
Here’s 3 ideas for how you can declutter in short bursts of time, regardless of your schedule and season of life.
1. Grab a bag or a box.
To get started on this one, all you need to do is grab a bag, a cardboard box or large container that you can donate. Bonus points of the bag, box or container is reusable or recyclable! Next you’re going to fill it up with items you no longer need in your home. You can approach this in a few different ways. One option is to put your box in a central location in the house, walk your home and bring things back to the box when you find something you’d like to donate (yes, grab those items you need to recycle or toss as well). Another idea is to declutter for a short chunks of time or over the course of a day or week.
Another approach is to bring the bag or box into a certain room and focus all your efforts in that one area. When it is full, you’re done OR when you’re done in that space, you can move to another area to keep filling it up. Remember to remove your donation items from your home ASAP and send them on to their next life with love and care. See more donation resources here.
To provide proof that this idea works you can check out how I used this same idea with my kids and a cardboard box.
2. Set a timer.
Seems obvious but a timer can be your best friend when it comes to decluttering in your home. Here’s one of my favorite time timers I love to use in our home for all sorts of tasks, or simply set your timer on your phone. When you don’t feel like you have much time to devote to decluttering, this will help light a quick fire under you. I’m talking 10, 20 or 30 minutes on your timer to declutter. That’s it!
Where should you declutter during these short bursts? So glad you asked! Here’s a few ideas. You can pick a certain zone to focus on that’s been a chaos/clutter magnet in your home. You can focus on one room. You can also choose one category of items to declutter throughout your home (like books, toys, hanging clothing, etc.). Keep blinders on to everything else and just focus on that one category, room or zone you’ve committed to and see what you can do in whatever short burst of time you can give.
If you’re just getting your feet wet with decluttering, you might want to check out these past blog posts for more (and see more declutter resources at the end of this post). Decluttering In Your Home: How To Get It Done 3 Thing That Sabbotage Your Declutter Efforts
3. Declutter at random.
Sounds like a loose concept but hear me out. I want you to get into the mindset that decluttering can happen at any time, on any day. It does not have to be scheduled to be impactful. When you encounter something that needs to go, immediately remove it and take it to your donations holding area. Set up a donation box, bag or zone anywhere in your home that makes the most sense for you. We have a spot in our garage that once it fills up, we make a donation drop off or schedule a pick with one of our favorite charities in our area. It can also be as simple as a bag on a hook on the back of a closet door or a box on the floor in the garage or a utility closet. Get creative. Anything goes.
So those clothes your kids have outgrown, those extra 3 spatulas you never touch and make you dig for the things you actually use in the kitchen drawer, the unopened toiletries you bought on impulse and haven’t touch in over a year, the items in your closet you avoid daily, the toys your kids no longer play…send them on to your donation zone the same day you make the realization, or better yet, the moment you know it needs to go. No timer needed, no plan on the calendar necessary!
Commit to making decluttering a part of your daily mindset to chip away at reclaiming your spaces in small bursts. I promise you’ll be surprised at how quickly you can create more space and breathing room in your home.
Now tell us below, which of these 3 short burst decluttering ideas are you going to try first? And please circle back and let us know how it goes!
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Decluttering In Your Home: How To Get It Done
Decluttering often feels like a grand concept that will take a lot of time. I want to assure you that there is another approach that is far more doable and realistic for you, regardless of the season of life you’re in.
Today we’re going to cover 3 strategic tips that will help you actually get decluttering done in your home, in short bursts. These tips will help you align your efforts with proven ways to complete a round of decluttering instead of it just being an idea, that sounds good, that you hope to get to someday! Let’s dive in.
Create a plan.
The first step to decluttering is to create a plan so it becomes a tangible, actionable thing you can get a pulse on. First, IDENTIFY what category, zone or area you want to focus on. Next CLARIFY when you will work on it. I suggest you write this down on a calendar or planner, a task list or schedule it digitally in your calendar on your phone as a reminder.
Your plan might look like one of these:
IDENTIFY: Declutter the hallway misc. closet / CLARIFY: I’ll declutter it over two evenings after the kids are in bed
IDENTIFY: Do a general declutter of decor in the main spaces in our home / CLARIFY: I’ll set a timer for 30 minutes on the weekend to get it done
Set a deadline.
Nothing is more powerful for getting a decluttering project done than a deadline. Pinky promise. Here’s a few ideas on how to do this, all of which I have done and continue to do in my own home.
Do it with a friend: You both create a plan for a small declutter task you’re doing in your home and then plan to go drop off your donations together. Set a deadline 1-2 weeks out and hold each other accountable/encourage each other during the process.
Schedule a donation pick up: One of my favorite ways to keep momentum during a decluttering burst in my home is to know someone is relying on my efforts for a donation pick up. Having a hard date on the calendar is extremely helpful to keep you focused and motivated. Two of my donation pick ups you can schedule in advance include Leukemia of Texas and Salvation Army - check locally for more options.
Invite someone over: Use the invite of someone coming to your house to visit as your deadline to get your decluttering burst done. I love doing this before my parents visit. I try to get any donations I have sitting in the garage dropped off before they arrive.
Align your efforts with a cause.
One of the things you utilize to encourage forward motion on any decluttering effort is to align it with something that is meaningful and valuable to you. Aligning your decluttering efforts with a cause or charity that needs your help will help you stay motivated when you want quit or spend your time elsewhere. Reminding yourself that there’s so many people in your local community that can benefit from your donated goods will help you remember that your time decluttering is part of a bigger effort to care for the people in need in your community.
Here’s a few of my favorites right now.:
The Big Blue Truck Dress for Success Operation Kindness
My Stuff Bags Hope Scarves The Welman Project
I want to encourage to seek out your own donation causes, charities and groups in your area and share it with us through the forms on any of our donation pages. See all our donation categories here for more ideas.
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Now it’s your turn to weigh in!
Tell us below which one of these 3 declutter strategies are the most helpful to you while you’re decluttering to get the job done.
Seasonal Shifts | How To Declutter + Design Your Way Through It
It’s an interesting time right now for most, where cooler weather (unless you’re in Miami per se) has you bustling around with a renewed sense of energy that was previously absent in those high heat months. While it is a time of year that for most of us feels like things are RAMPING UP, I’d encourage you to SLOW DOWN during this “Seasonal Shift” into Fall/Winter, as we dive into December. Look at it as a time to review a few odds + ends around your home to lighten your load as the new year approaches. The new year will thank you!
It’s an interesting time right now for most, where cooler weather (unless you’re in Miami per se) has you bustling around with a renewed sense of energy that was previously absent in those high heat months. While it is a time of year that for most of us feels like things are RAMPING UP, I’d encourage you to SLOW DOWN during this “Seasonal Shift” into Fall/Winter, as we dive into December. Look at it as a time to review a few odds + ends around your home to lighten your load as the new year approaches. The new year will thank you!
1. CATEGORY: CLOTHING
When you you start pulling out your cooler weather clothing, take a moment to assess each item + your likelihood of wearing it again.
PRO TIP: Keep a notepad handy + write down any essentials that you’re missing + need to shop for (ie. raincoat, gloves, warmer socks) —PS. I wrote that sock part as a reminder to myself! Last winter was rough…as a I tried to “create” one pair of warm socks by layering three together…yea, it’s embarrassing.
ADULTS
✓ Review your colder weather items in categories (ie. sweaters, jackets, scarves, gloves, boots, etc.) so you can assess what you have objectively + not as one big pile. This is a time to assess if you have any duplicates that aren’t used. Give those away to someone who can use them now!
✓ Ask yourself when’s the last time you wore the item? If you can’t remember + aren’t excited to wear it, let it go, Elsa style.
✓ Keep your best + favorites that you’re excited to wear. Donate the rest that are in good shape + could be immediately useful in someone’s life/home.
✓ Give these cold weather items a good wash + get rid of the dust bunnies, then fold/hang as needed so they’re easy to get to for the season.
KIDS
✓ Look at their clothing in categories (sweaters, jackets, sweats, etc.). Depending on where you live the quantities you need to support your lifestyle + weather conditions will vary. For example, here in NTX, it’s mild but winter can still get “serious” now + then so a good heavy jacket, raincoat we can layer with + a good hat, mittens/gloves, plus warm sweaters are still essentials. But we don’t keep many multiples. Beyond that, focus on layering pieces to create or remove warmth.
✓ Remove anything they’ve grown out of for the season or don’t wear/don’t have interest in.
✓ Make sure these seasonal items are easy for your kids to get to encourage them to get dressed appropriately on their own. If it needs to be hung up, make sure a stool is nearby if they can’t reach it on their own. We hang up our heavy coats, then put all the “cold weather essentials” in a separate drawer down low. Our everyday pants + long sleeves are in another “everyday” drawer because it is worn frequently.
2. CATEGORY: KITCHEN/FOOD
To do a seasonal breeze through of this, only focus on the items below to lighten your load. You can do another deep dive when you have time/energy.
PRO TIP: Keep things simple by breaking things into mini tasks, like one drawer at a time, one pantry category at a time (teas, baking supplies) rather than looking at everything all together which just fuels the “overwhelm”. Put your energy in places you know need TLC (like neglected pantry shelves or drawers that you can’t shut or find anything in). These are quick win/high impact suggestions, so feel free to pick + choose from the list or do them all if you’re feeling wild!
✓ Do a quick review of your pantry - remove old/expired foods + foods you’re not going to eat. Donate to a local food bank anything not expired or unopened.
✓ Jot down on a notepad foods or pantry staples you’d like to restock on for your holiday/seasonal favorites.
✓ Drawers - remove anything that never got used this year/you avoided (or you can’t remember the last time you used it). Toss broken/beyond repair items.
✓ Cabinets - remove anything that you no longer use, is broken or you’ve fallen out of love with. Donate (or sell) anything in good, usable shape.
✓ Fridge/Freezer - toss expired sauces, foods, frozen items, etc. Clean + recycle as much packaging as possible.
✓ Spices - toss anything that’s old/expired (smell it to determine freshness, it should still smell like the spice or toss it) - plan to restock on your favorites.
✓ Mug Intervention - yes I’m talking to you! I’m totally game for all the warm + cozy drinks, but you don’t need 30 mugs to do, I promise you! Pull them ALL out on the counter + only keep your absolutely FAVORITES. The chipped ones need to go. Donate the extras in good shape. Phew! Don’t we all feel better now?!
3. CATEGORY: SEASONAL DECOR
NOW I probably have your attention! Are you ready to tame the seasonal decor chaos? OK, here we go!
PRO TIP: There is this unnecessary, ridiculous pressure each holiday season to buy new decor for your home. What’s the deal with this? Can we just kick this to the curb once + for all? I am here to liberate you. If you need to make a swap or bring something new in, something should be headed out the door as well. Keep reading for more tips on this below.
✓ As you pull out a box/bag/container of seasonal decor items, you’re going to objectively look at each item to decide if you’re going to keep it. PS. Your taste is likely going to change over time + that’s OK! Part with things you fall out of love with + make peace with it!
✓ Declutter as you decorate. Yes! It’s groundbreaking concept, join me! It’s great! I often sort as I open containers + keep a brown paper bag or box handy to add ornaments, knickknacks, art, garlands, seasonal platters, cups, etc. When you have it in your hands if you LOVE IT + you IMMEDIATELY know where it can be displayed/put out, KEEP IT. Once you’ve done a thorough editing on these items (+ have honed your personal style a bit more), there’s less + less to edit each year. Phew!
✓ Be incredibly mindful of what you BRING IN this season. It’s OK to love what you already have + not buy new. It is also OK to make some intentional swaps if there’s something you’re missing + want to add. But don’t bring in more than you need or will use. It is more to manage + store ALL YEAR LONG.
4. CATEGORY: EXTRAS
This category is really for the non-essentials in our life that do make life more enjoyable when we have boundaries for them. Let me enlighten you…
PRO TIP: If you have items you’re donating, plan to donate your items that week. Schedule it into your time + get it done!
✓ Pick one or as many of these “extras” to go through at your leisure: kids toys, magazines, books, decor, throw blankets, writing utensils, candles, lotions, soaps, teas, coffees, etc.
✓ Now pick an “extra” + review it by zone (by shelf, drawer, etc.) or do a full group (pull all your magazines together on the table to review). Keep only what you LOVE + USE + ENJOY NOW. The rest needs to go.
✓ Kids Toys - only KEEP the following: items they use/play with regularly, are developmentally appropriate, aren’t broken/damaged, are worth the space they take up in the home + it doesn’t interfere with valuable open/play space for them. Open space will always be more valuable than any single toy that exists on the planet. Let that sink in.
✓ Some of these “extras” may need to be tossed if opened, expired, etc. Donate or giveaway anything in good shape. Recycle/donate sell books + magazines. Donate decor items you’ve fallen out of love with but are still in good shape + could be useful in someone else’s home.
SO WHAT’S NEXT?
It’s time to enjoy the space you’ve just freed up throughout your home! Yes!! These are all ideas on where to start + by no means do you need to do all of them unless you’d like! I know you’ll love the results when you’re done.
If you’re needing help with more decluttering + you’d like more support from me, feel free to check out all of these mini course still available discounted through the end the year. Here’s the line up:
Clothing Closet Declutter Guide
Declutter Guide For Kids
Organization + Style Guide
Please feel free to DM me on Instagram / email me with any questions while you’re working through these mini courses. I am more than happy to help + keep you moving + encouraged!
And don’t forget, enrollment for the Declutter Your Home Masterclass will be open for enrollment again early next year! If you want to learn more about this holistic, deep dive into learning how to declutter + learn all of the skills you’ll ever need to declutter your home + life for good, click HERE. If you want to know the moment it is live again in 2022, make sure you’re signed up for EMAILS (light on your inbox + you’ll get a bonus low cost organizing guide too just for signing up!).
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Declutter + Organize Without Making A Huge Mess
If the fear of making a huge mess often scares you away from decluttering + organizing, please keep reading! We’re going to talk about both the mess + the overwhelm of larger projects, or projects that might take more time to knock out. Solutions do exist for all of this, I promise!
If the fear of making a huge mess often scares you away from decluttering + organizing, please keep reading!
We’re going to talk about both the mess + the overwhelm of larger projects, or projects that might take more time to knock out. Solutions do exist for all of this, I promise!
We started this discussion last week in our EOW Chat (end of week) that I post on Instagram stories typically on Friday or Saturday each week. When This conversation was initiated by several of you reaching out to me over the course of many months, sharing your own concerns + stories, so I thought this topic deserved a deeper look. Let’s get to it!
Many of you (and myself included) said that there are often times when you KNOW there is an area your home that needs attention - whether it be decluttering, organizing, or both - BUT you never get started out of FEAR of making a big mess during the process. This fear stops you in your tracks.
This fear you’ve expressed to me, and that I am very familiar with, comes from various layers worth mentioning. See if any of these thoughts resonate with you:
When I get started decluttering or organizing, it spreads out and takes over my whole house!
Decluttering makes more of a mess than what I had to start with!
I don’t have enough space in my home to start decluttering.
My kids will get into everything I’m trying to sort through.
I don’t have enough time to declutter an area and get it pulled back together quick enough.
I’m not going to be able to use this space for my day-to-day if I start decluttering here.